Are You A Highly Desirable Woman? | @strugzinspires @metrogypsie

Are You A Highly Desirable Woman? | @strugzinspires @metrogypsie

Hi guys, the idea 💡 of a power woman shoot came from my friend, Amaka of @Strugzinspires. I then post drew inspiration from an article (by Akash Gautam; 9 characteristics of highly desirable women) to strengthen/back up the fashion. 75% of the items worn by us made by Nigerian female designers.

The dictionaries define “Desirable” as “worth having or wanting; pleasant, excellent or fine.”

watch behind the scenes video here

Although it said that beauty lies in the hand of the beholder, there are certain traits a woman could posses to make her lots more attractive and of huge value. Asides desirability, we’d be touching on behavioral patterns strong (powerful) females most likely possess.

1. They don’t chase people instead they develop themselves.

That carefree/confident attitude that make them feel complete in themselves.

2. They are in control of their emotions

No need to waste time in emotions that wouldn’t bring them any progress.

3. They avoid gossip

Petty gossip, useless talking, and drama is for school girls — not the desirable women that we look up to.


4. They are not attention seekers

She doesn’t like to spam people with such relationship-status-on-social-media trivialities. They would much rather be known and talked about for their real and meaningful achievements.

They believe in earning attention from like-minded people, not snatching it with constant updates on the happenings in their lives. They earn respect instead of asking for it. They believe in maintaining a mystery about their lives which only selected people can have access to.


5. They don’t lose themselves in their relationships

It’s not that they hold back. They have a life of their own that goes beyond the relationship. They don’t cling to their boyfriends or girlfriends constantly.

They don’t lose sight of their goals and dreams for love. They don’t lose their identity. Desirable women make smart decisions about how much time they are willing to devote to their relationships and to their goals. They set their priorities. They let their relationships add to their lives — not become their whole lives.


6. They have hobbies and passions

Desirable women make massive efforts to become better at their hobbies and passions. Some of the most desirable women are the ones who care deeply about their hobbies. It defines them and makes them more interesting people.


7. They are fiercely intelligent

They have a certain kind of wisdom that comes from experience, from a plethora of mistakes and a life full of lessons.They are no strangers to deep conversation. They read books.


8. They are confident

It’s not about their appearance but their aura. They don’t worry about their physical shortcomings. They fix what they can and carry themselves with elegance and charm that only a lady can possess.

They dress well and know how to exude confidence. 


9. They understand financial health

They are proactive and understand that they the fact they can pay for stuff doesn’t mean they can afford it. They are logical with the right mix of rationality and emotion. Desirable women don’t overdo it.


10. They are supportive towards fellow women.

They understand that a single tree🌲 cannot a forest 🌳 make. They don’t see competition at the slightest turn instead a chance to uplift/empower.



Photography:- @emilysowerby
Edit:- @metrogypsie
Look 1
Tee – Topshop
Amaka – @strugzinspires
Look 2
Hair- @viotress
Dress – @chen_stitches
Heels – @gucci
Look 3
Hair- @viotress
Boots – @dolcegabanna
Stephanie – @metrogypsie
Look 2
Jacket:- @zarauk
Corset Top and Pants:- @fabulousbytejupretty
Shoes – @dune
Hat:- MGVintage
Look 3
Jacket Top & Skirt:- @chen_stiches
Heels – @aldo_shoes
Wig – @glam.madam




  1. Amaka
    April 5, 2017 / 8:11 pm

    This is amazing, thanks for sharing

    BTW outfit on No 8, being confident is too good!!

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