Hi lovely,
welcome to my space.
In recent times, I have come across tons of situations where girls have issues with their partners while already in marriage.
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In most of these cases, the habits that is now the issue were already existing traits they seemed to ignore while dating. Decided to share some red flags you should oat attention to so as to try and change, manage or exit.
1. Partners that can’t seem to cater to themselves
with such a person, if you cannot be a “MOTHER” to them forever, then run.
2. Partners who want you to important stuff in secret.
this shows a huge lack of respect and slimminess.
3. Possessive partners ❌
just very worst.
4. Persons who wants to disrupt your core values
you would continually give up things for them which would make you resent yourself. This gets worse when kids become involved.
5. The ones that need a ‘fixer’
if you can’t deal with what 3/4 of the personalities and traits one gas developed in all their 20 – 30 years living, then move. There is only so little you can effect even in 5 years.
6. the ones who want to change you drastically
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I hope you’re abke to discern red flags in your current or next relationship. Thanks for your time on here – let’s link up on instagram.
xxox
